In classroom, in workplace or in anywheren in your life, you definitely will meet some people that you would not agree with their behavior ; or even you will see some unreasonable behavior. So how do we due with it. Or how do we convey the message to them;so they feel is easy to accept.
I think the art of speech play a major role. Why some of the people are very successful , and many people feel very comfortable around them and love them very much . I think 90+% of them know how to respect and appreciate a person, and make another person feel privillge. These are the people who know how to speak positive language rather than sound like judging a person all the time.
They are using beautiful words to encourage and compliment others.
I think the simplest way to do it, is to imagine the way you want people to talk to you. How you want them to talk to you? Is it full of respect, make you feel like you are very imporatant person; respect and appreciate your work or as a person?
After someone feel like you are in the ” same boat” with them, any opinion to them will sound like a friendly reminder. Just like your bestfriend who understand you and appreciate you, watever they said is so much easier to accept.
On the other hand, I think we should appreciate those who brave to step up to you , and tell you what you are doing wrong. It is like that theory, good customer is those who complain ; so we know which area to improve and become better.
Hope you like it ^-^
GOD BLESS ON YOUR WISDOM OF SPEAKING ~
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