Encouragement is better than Judgement

I really want to share this quote to you. It is my all time favorite quote from Dale Carnegie :”Instead of condemning people ; let’s try to understand why they do what they do.People do better work and put forth greater effort under a spirit of approval/ encouragement than under a spirit of criticism“.

Sometime even you find that you are very angry at one person, try to cool down first and think what make that person do that. Everthing happen for reasons. Just like that exercise we did it this week- what make a personality; are from family and up bringing environment.
Some people might not that fortunate enough to get the right information/lesson at the right time.

So if we all could be more understanding to each other as a human being. It’s gonna be a beautiful world and not ” politics” world .Plus tough situation tends to polish you up and become more mature in speed, so there’s always a “pro” in every situation.

I know sometime very hard to control the fire inside when you are in a intense situation. Its happen ,I also have some lose control moments, but I try to be calm and patient. And I am in the progress of getting better and better.I hope you do as well.

So next time when you starting to feel rage, try to that “The Fish” movement – deep breath and blow all the bad fire out. Istead of using it to “fire” people.

Remember that quote.

Thanks for reading, I hope you enjoy it.

Warmest Regards,

Hannah Chong