7 ( my new 1st step can be your new 1st step)
Subject: my new first step
Date: Sat, 17 May 2008 18:28:26 +0000
To my Dear Sis & dear Friends,
Tell you a good news, I finally stepping out of my cave and decided to help my friend out in her family business. will Start work on Tuesday. Is a start, I'm happy I finally brave and decided to do it. Although is no a big job, is just work as Admin Exec. and salary also much less than b4 . But it's an opportunity for me to step out.
I feel lucky, she willing to ask me a few times, and I take the chance. Thank you for all this time you all, patiencely support (mentally, verbally, ...help).
Actually I already feel very good, when we go out, you guys, just will not focus and emphasize on my financial status. You guys will just support and keep high hope, I will be better soon.
Thank you.
I know is just a start, still long way to go, still much that I need to achieve and solve......
Bear Hugs!!God Bless*
Love, thanks & Regards,
Hannah
Corrine says:
Congratulations~!!! Hannah
Corrine says:
i'm so glad to hear this nes from you
Hannah - ^-^* to all my dear sis,friends,am stepping out first step, thank you for your patience support(mentally,courage & help! says:
Corrine says:
You gonna doing well
You know last time, I always few easy to boring, but after I found my goal, and my own rely principle ,and core value, Boring never bother me, Because , I always feel like I have something to do. Like writing msg or blog to encourage others, read some inspire book encourage my self, read newspaper to learn more, do exercise., spent great time with ppl you love, learn new skill.....
Cos.I know no matter how , I already got everything
I don’t need to wait for another new bf, new relationship to fulfill the thirst in my heart (the dark voice that in your heart that always tell you is not enough), Actually , I already got a great family and friends, and every necessary and unnecessary thing in my living. Even you don’t have all those, but you have the hard experience to make you extra stronger than all those who have everything. Just look at the sample back ground of many great icons.
So my heart fills with appreciation, and wants to give out more love.
I know faith will come, when its time, no need to worry you never got it. Just be happy and appreciate everyday, you will sparkle to other
To be true, I found it from my religion, I know no matter what I face, I always have a principle I can refer to I can rely on. Cos I know the one who create human, will love and protect what he created, HE want to have good time with us; as long we thankful for that. He always catches us when we fall, and lead us to do wise choice. (But did we give our ear to Father)
When we feel down, most of the time, because we just want what we want, and when we didn’t get what we want at that time, we sad.
Are you sure every time, what you want is good for you??
If every moment you feel- I can do something for somebody, you will feel happy, you’re your heart will feel free. Even just lent your ear to a down family member, you already showing love
Even someone who is so poor of everything, they can share their life to others, how they can survive with so limited resource.
We worth something, we have value,
From this time lesson I realize last time what I know in the past is so less, feel so stupid, didn’t see the whole big picture.
I always feel like I have to prepare myself 100% ,only then I brave to go out confront the world, confront ppl. So I hide.
Just like my English, I always afraid to speak, because I think is not perfect. So feel shame to speak out/ showing it out and refuse to take chance to do practical practice.
But no one is perfect everybody is in the process of learning something all the time.
( E.g. baby walking, { if they scare to walk , the whole life he don’t need to learn walk , and don’t know how}, brushing teeth, learn to communicate well with love with so much patience and understanding, learn to wear cloth,……)
I remember that I said a simple theory to my Sister, which reminds me also. She‘s trying to keep in shape. But she’’s just keep complaining abt herself. But I tell her most of the time what you see out there everyone body shape is not perfect, then if they are scare, they just hide in the “cave” no need to go out anymore? And not need to go out exercise, improve, let other see how they change?
Let other see “ before” and “ after”.
As long you are not doing anything wrong like robber, commit adultery, kill and …,etc, You can bravely step out, even with broken English. Everybody have to feel comfortable about them, because, everyone have their own specialization +everybody is learning (even learning to learn fast)
Like me, I think:
I work too slow, maybe I'm not professional enough, and my communication skill not good enough, my English not good enough, my time manage poor, so I hide and always run away , hide in the cave, make everybody worry
:
Actually, I should just bravely confront & improve everyday what I am doing is enough. Is simple, not as complicated as I think
If this boss doesn’t give opportunity to you, just change another, plus u can learn new stuff at other place. Most of the time, is not others don’t give me opportunity, Is I myself shut my own door. I don’t give chance for myself,
Because I think when I'm present out, I have to be perfect at all time.
So when you are not perfect you not worth it??
But I forget the process of being better is go through the polish process, confront and make it better
(even the “ not yet healthy attitude” ppl laugh at you, give you hard time; you can smile at them they are not perfect in their attitude too, they are no manners)
Is not easy, but have to push yourself taking the first step ( until you have a habit get in the process to become success = Polish )
Hm, I hope you will happy everyday. no matter what, you have any problem, boring, or question , you can always leave me message.
You know I when I start work, and face problem. And feel like start blaming and angry with my boss or others. I will pause and tell myself, why they are doing what they do, first I will question myself, am I doing everything I can.
If yes, then also will not blame them, just think maybe their background their mood influence them, maybe they not yet learn how to deal with a healthy way.
Talk to them understands them and technically remind them, even at that moment youI hate them.
When we feel down, most of the time, because we just think what we want, have you ever try first think in your mind what people want?
( like a mind habit) Try and do a test, ask other to aware what’s your angle of looking things –see everything you talk. You will surprise how patience and forgiving we are to ourselves.
If you love other like yourself, you are happy and success.
Monday, May 19, 2008
Tuesday, May 6, 2008
Our Moments In Life
6
Family, Relatives , Friends.....
6 May, 2008 ( Tuesday)
Dear All,
Hope this beautiful article cheer you up when you feeling down, hopeless and discourage!
This article is an old forward from my ex- Human Resource Manager ,
who always like to sent inspiration articles to encourage everyone.( I like that)I
was touched by it, and make one print out and sliped in in my diary,
which I intend to give it to a friend. Today it suddenly slip out. I
s time to sent this message out.
( not to only one when you can sent to everyone)
Article that I almost forget that touch me once; and remind me to appreciate people around you. Even your friend's friend that you don't even have any memory or the family / relatives , neighbors -those who have relationship with you but you never really talk to ;or you don't have desire to talk to .
Because last Saturday, I just met back someone who looks so familiar , but I couldn't remember who she is. Then we ask both at the same time, are you my school mate, we search back memoryfrom primary school -- to high school -- to neighborhood -- college. Oh~, at last, we found out she is one of my college classmate's roomate.
She is a sweet girl and kind; in my heart, I say , hmm.., I should have some memory. Then she said she only studyat that college for one year. But right now she's my choir teacher , how marvellous is that!
Someone who seem really far away from you once, suddenly is so close to your life.
My heart speak: I should have create more great memory in the past,in her life, so she can remember me right away
love people around you, spread the love around,
how I wish I am the great memory in their mind
Don't bother how you gonna handle so many people, you don't have enough time...
Just focus on- eveytime you meet a people, give them a great time
you never know you will meet back soemone who look not so related to you
someday
someone they could have been your best friend
why focus on criticize ,judge and give standard mark to be your best friendand
focus on calculating people fault
where actually you both can fade out the flaw , the bad attitude together
to grow and improve together
(since everyone have "typo")
Enjoy!
Our Moments In LIfe
There are moments in life when you miss someone
So much that you just want to pick them from
your dreams and hug them for real!
When the door of happiness closes, another opens;
but often times we look so long at the
closed door that we don't see the one,
which has been opened for us.
Don't go for looks; they can deceive.
Don't go for wealth; even the fades away.
Go for someone who makes you smile,
becuase it takes only a smile to
make a dark day seem bright.
Find the one that makes your heart smile.
Dream what you want to dream;
go where you want to go;
be what you want to be,
because you have only one life
and one chance to do all the things
you want to do.
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet,
enough trials to make you strong,
enough sorrow to keep you human and
enough hope to make you happy.
The happiest of poeple don't necessarily have the best of everything;
they just make the most of everyhting that comes along their way.
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past;you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
When you were born, you were crying
and everyone around you was smiling.
Live your life so at the end,
you're the one who is smiling and everyonearound you is crying.
Please send this message to those people
who mean something to you ( JUST DID);
to those who have touched your life in one way or another;
to those who make you smile when you really need it;
to those who make you see the beauty in hardness ( water drops fade out these three words , I just guess)
brighter side of things when you are really down;
to those whose friendship you appreciate;
to those who are so meaningful in your life.
Don't count the years - count the memories!
posted by Very Sincerely,Hannah ( 6 May, 2008 )
Family, Relatives , Friends.....
6 May, 2008 ( Tuesday)
Dear All,
Hope this beautiful article cheer you up when you feeling down, hopeless and discourage!
This article is an old forward from my ex- Human Resource Manager ,
who always like to sent inspiration articles to encourage everyone.( I like that)I
was touched by it, and make one print out and sliped in in my diary,
which I intend to give it to a friend. Today it suddenly slip out. I
s time to sent this message out.
( not to only one when you can sent to everyone)
Article that I almost forget that touch me once; and remind me to appreciate people around you. Even your friend's friend that you don't even have any memory or the family / relatives , neighbors -those who have relationship with you but you never really talk to ;or you don't have desire to talk to .
Because last Saturday, I just met back someone who looks so familiar , but I couldn't remember who she is. Then we ask both at the same time, are you my school mate, we search back memoryfrom primary school -- to high school -- to neighborhood -- college. Oh~, at last, we found out she is one of my college classmate's roomate.
She is a sweet girl and kind; in my heart, I say , hmm.., I should have some memory. Then she said she only studyat that college for one year. But right now she's my choir teacher , how marvellous is that!
Someone who seem really far away from you once, suddenly is so close to your life.
My heart speak: I should have create more great memory in the past,in her life, so she can remember me right away
love people around you, spread the love around,
how I wish I am the great memory in their mind
Don't bother how you gonna handle so many people, you don't have enough time...
Just focus on- eveytime you meet a people, give them a great time
you never know you will meet back soemone who look not so related to you
someday
someone they could have been your best friend
why focus on criticize ,judge and give standard mark to be your best friendand
focus on calculating people fault
where actually you both can fade out the flaw , the bad attitude together
to grow and improve together
(since everyone have "typo")
Enjoy!
Our Moments In LIfe
There are moments in life when you miss someone
So much that you just want to pick them from
your dreams and hug them for real!
When the door of happiness closes, another opens;
but often times we look so long at the
closed door that we don't see the one,
which has been opened for us.
Don't go for looks; they can deceive.
Don't go for wealth; even the fades away.
Go for someone who makes you smile,
becuase it takes only a smile to
make a dark day seem bright.
Find the one that makes your heart smile.
Dream what you want to dream;
go where you want to go;
be what you want to be,
because you have only one life
and one chance to do all the things
you want to do.
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet,
enough trials to make you strong,
enough sorrow to keep you human and
enough hope to make you happy.
The happiest of poeple don't necessarily have the best of everything;
they just make the most of everyhting that comes along their way.
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past;you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
When you were born, you were crying
and everyone around you was smiling.
Live your life so at the end,
you're the one who is smiling and everyonearound you is crying.
Please send this message to those people
who mean something to you ( JUST DID);
to those who have touched your life in one way or another;
to those who make you smile when you really need it;
to those who make you see the beauty in hardness ( water drops fade out these three words , I just guess)
brighter side of things when you are really down;
to those whose friendship you appreciate;
to those who are so meaningful in your life.
Don't count the years - count the memories!
posted by Very Sincerely,Hannah ( 6 May, 2008 )
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